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October 21, 2009

My Season

The last couple months have been crazy around here. Wednesday night classes at church started, soccer started, a weekly Bible study with my mom's church started. We had 2 birthdays which = 2 birthday parties plus 2 friends' birthday parties, and an anniversary which = a surprise weekend away (more on that later).

Our typical week has been:
Sunday - church
Sunday night - Awanas
Monday night - Library
Tuesday - weekly Bible study with Mom
Tuesday night - soccer practice
Wednesday night - church
Thursday (every other) - nursing home
Friday -
Saturday - soccer game

One week we had all that plus a birthday which we got to spend with my sister and her kiddos, a birthday party, and we had to make boxes for collecting Bibles to place around the church. That meant lots of trips to Joanne's for craft materials. And since I don't do anything quickly and I wanted to save money, it took a lot of time to get done.

Another week I had 3 Bible studies in 2 days because two of my once-a-month studies met in the same week.

I kept trying to figure out what to cut out. Can't cut soccer but it will be over in a few more weeks. One month I did skip a Bible study. And I temporarily suspended our nursing home visits this month - although we traded one of those to go downtown to pass out Bible to the homeless.

What I have discovered -or rediscovered- is that this is not my season for such busyness. This is my season for staying home and meeting the needs of my husband and children.

I can't do the things I need to do around here if I'm always on the go.

I can't spend the time I want to with the kids when we're always getting ready to go somewhere.

So what have I done? I have made some decisions:

1. I need to pray a lot more before committing to something.

2. Roddy and I decided the class we were taking on Wednesday nights was for the birds. It was a parenting class that doesn't line up with our parenting philosophy, so we emailed the leaders and told them we were going to back out of it. They were great leaders, it was just the material we didn't care for. They were sweet about it and very understanding.

3. I asked my mom if she would mind if I didn't finish going to her church's weekly Bible study. It was a Beth Moore study - very good - but very time consuming. Between trying to do the homework and all the other running around we were doing, I didn't have any time for my own Bible-time. She too was gracious and understanding.

I think if you commit to something you should stick to it but in this case, I believe discontinuing both was what I needed to do. And I'm already reaping the rewards of LESS!

I LOVE being home!! This is my season!!!

7 comments:

Tiffanie Hage said...

Completely agree! There is NO place I'd rather be than at home with my family. Sounds like you made a good decision. I too cut some things off my list and felt an immediate release!!

Meme said...

I am amazed at all you do without the busy schedule of other things that are good but family is better. God will bless you for this decision. Love Meme

Rachél said...

I know exactly what you're talking about. The last two months have felt like they were in overdrive. I didn't realize how many standing appointments we had. Those are all great things that I don't think we're supposed to give up, but I realize now that I can't add anything else. Unfortunately I had been adding little things here and there. Well, no more!

Shital Pearson said...

Could not agree with you more, Jenny! We have our children for such a short season...God will bless the decison you and Roddy made!

Kara Wright said...

Wow, starting to sound like our lives! I'm glad you're able to slow down a bit! Miss you lots and can't wait until Christmas

justgottalaugh said...

I agree with you completely. I'm thrilled for you that you saw the need for less busy-ness and did something about it. I know many who just don't think there's anything they can change and then they (i.e. their marriage or their children) suffer for it later. Enjoy those un-committed evenings.

Cricket said...

So totally agree. I'm very hesitant to agree to anything these days and as much as I would like to start sports it's another reason we haven't yet. I'm just not ready for anymore running around, and I don't think my kids are either. I know there is a time for everything and God reveals that to each family in His time and at the perfect time. Missed seeing you at the bible study though!

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